Differences + values

Understanding + accepting different people + different values

The world is inhabited by millions of people, some of whom share similar opinions and values, and some of whom don't. Diversity of culture, race, values, politics, body shape and size, sexuality and religion - to name a few - is what makes us individuals.

Accepting difference

However, not everyone readily accepts another person's differences. In fact, you may find that what makes someone different from you confuses you, scares you, or angers you.

Equally other people may be confused or scared or threatened by you because of your appearance, values, opinions or cultural beliefs. Often this non-acceptance of each other's differences can lead to conflict.

The best possible situation is where people are happy being different from you. Learning to accept each other's differences and learning to understand them can help make our families and communities harmonious, peaceful and safe.

Sometimes it may be hard to accept other people's differences. Try to remember that if someone holds a different cultural or political value to you, this does not necessarily make them 'wrong' in any way. These people can include members of your own family, your friends, teachers, workmates and so on.

Building better relationships

Try to keep in mind that different values can often mean just a different way of looking at things. Sometimes trying to see something from someone else's point of view may give you a new insight, or way of seeing things, that you have never thought about before.

Learning to understand other's differences, and finding ways to live with them and their differences alongside you, is a positive step towards better relationships and a better world.

Don't be afraid to talk to someone you trust if you are having problems understanding another person's difference.