Managing relationships over Christmas

Hanging out with parents + family

Christmas may be a busy time with your family. It may just be Mum, Dad and your brothers and sisters, however it is not uncommon to have grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins around for Christmas. It may be that you only see some of these people a couple of times a year and don't feel you have a lot in common with them. If there are different opinions within the group, it might mean that people are a little more on edge. This may make it hard for everyone to relax.

It is a good idea to remember to try and respect people's space and if things are getting on top of you, try to take some time out. You may want to go for a walk, listen to some music or read a book in a quiet place.

Spending time with your boyfriend/girlfriend over Christmas

That feeling of love can be heaps of fun and celebrating Christmas together may be something that you want to do. Christmas may also be a time when your family expects you to be home with them. Sometimes it can be hard to balance the two. To do this, it may help to think about how you can do both.

You may be able to create a special time to see your girlfriend/boyfriend. This may be on Christmas Eve, Christmas night or Boxing day.

If your family is going away for Christmas, you may want to do something special a few days before or after you go away. There is no reason why you can't give presents then and make it just as special as Christmas Day.

Buying presents

When you care about someone it is not unusual to want to buy something special. Sometimes you may feel pressure to buy something that is outside your price range. Try to remember that presents don't represent what you feel for someone.

It is a good idea to stick to what you can afford. Be creative and think of something romantic to do for your girlfriend/boyfriend such as taking them on a picnic or making a special CD with all their favourite songs.

For more information, check out the fact sheets the left side of the page for more information on relationships.