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Physical disabilities can be either short term (eg. a broken wrist) or long term (eg. paraplegia). Some disabilities can improve over time while others may not. Depending on you disability, it might be controlled with medication and physical therapy (eg. physiotherapy). Some people are born with physical disabilities, while other physical disabilities are caused by illness, injury or accident.

Having a disability can be a huge challenge and might mean having to make changes to many aspects of your life. It might mean having to find alternative ways to achieve your goals (or make new ones).

Disability - some reactions

Having a disability can be hard to deal with - you might experience a wide range of feelings or reactions. These are things you might feel when you first find out you have a disability. However, you might experience them at other times too. Some feelings or reactions you might experience include:

  • anger
  • sadness or depression
  • feeling scared
  • feeling overwhelmed
  • stress or anxiety
  • shock
  • frustration
  • denial
  • confusion

What can you do?

It can be overwhelming trying to understand why you have to deal with something that can be so difficult and seem so unfair. Some suggestions that might help:

  • Support - don't be afraid to ask for support, be it from a counsellor, family member or friend. Asking for support doesn't mean you're weak or a failure; it's a sign of strength. It might help to ask whether the doctors have had training for both the physical and psychological aspects of disabilities. Remember, it's okay to get a second opinion or try a new doctor or counsellor if you're not happy.
  • Try and be patient - finding yourself disabled can be really frustrating and mean that you are more dependant on other people, at least for a while.
  • Get informed - As with chronic illnesses, having a good understanding of your disability can help you learn to accept it. Knowing what to expect with your condition can take some of the anxiety away and help you manage it best.
  • Take care of yourself - make sure that you eat well and exercise if you can. And making sure you do something special for yourself each day, even if it's just watching your favourite TV show. Having a disability doesn't mean you can't have fun!

Discrimination

Discrimination is against the law. Disability discrimination happens when you are treated less fairly than people without a disability. Disability discrimination also occurs when you are treated less fairly because you are a relative, friend, carer, or co-worker of a person with a disability. Discrimination can happen at work, uni, school or a sports club. You can also be discriminated in a shop, bar or sports venue.

If you are experiencing discrimination there are things you can do:

  • Get informed - check out the Human Rights and Equal Opportunity website http://www.hreoc.gov.au/ to know your rights and what your options are for fighting it.
  • Take action - Tell or write to your manager or the person in charge about what is happening. Keep a journal to record events. If you aren't believed go to someone else or contact the Human Rights & Equal Opportunity Commission.
  • Get support -Tell someone you trust what is happening and take them with you when reporting the discrimination if you need the support.

Discrimination also includes bullying or harassment, which can seem less obvious. Check out the factsheets on bullying, listed on the righthand side for more information on what it is and what to do.

Where to get help?

Knowing what services are available to assist you can help you to better plan around any challenges. Physical disabilities can impact on your day to day life but there are lots of services designed to assist you.

  • Work -Centrelink can provide assistance if you are unable to work due to disability. They can also provide help to continue studying or working. Some employment agencies help disabled people with finding suitable work.
  • Study - Most universities have disability support offices that are designed to help students with disabilities. Services can include special consideration on exams/essays, organising for someone to take notes for you and organising on-campus parking.
  • Peak bodies and support groups - some disabilities are represented by non-government organisations. Support groups can be a great way to get support and advice from people who are going through and have gone through what you are going through. They provide support, advice and information. Check the yellow pages for peak body organisation and support groups for contact details (listed under 'Health Support Organisations).
  • Travel - Getting around can be a difficult when you have a physical disability. Disability access on public transport varies widely, depending on where you live (though is generally much better in cities). Give the transport company a call to find out more. Your local community service should be able to provide more information about the sorts of services they offer. If you are planning to go overseas or interstate there are travel agents who specialise in travel for disabled people (check the yellowpages).
  • Attendants - an attendant can give you extra support and help around the house, even if it's only for a short period. Your local council or hospital should be able to help you find someone.

More Information

Physical Disability Council of Australia
P O Box 77, Northgate Qld 4013
ph: 07 3267 1057
fax: 07 3267 1057
E: pdca@pdca.org.au


Acknowledgement

Thanks to Y Connection for helping to develop this factsheet.

  • This content was created by Reach Out Australia.
  • Last updated 22 Sep 10

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4 Comments

mischief_managed

about 1 month ago

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Hey Riley,


Welcome to Reach Out. :) 

I can't imagine going through what you are/have been going through. It makes me realize that I definitely take my body for granted sometimes!

I don't think that anyone can really answer your question RE amputation, other than your doctor. I would recommend talking to your doctor - if you have a specialist, I'd discuss it with them, but if not talk to your GP and see what they say. I definitely don't think it's a ridiculous idea, but no one on Reach Out are medical experts, so we can't really tell you what to do in this situation! So I'd really urge you to talk to a doctor.

Regardless, I strongly believe that your physical disability will NOT stop you from doing anything in life. There are MANY inspiring people who have physical disabilities who do amazing things everyday! But I think the first step is accepting that you are "different" and realizing that with determination, a bit of extra help (if needed) and confidence in yourself, then you can achieve anything you want! 

It might also help you to talk to a counsellor about how you are feeling about your disability. They might be able to give you some ideas on how to cope better and how to do the things you would really like to do!!

If you need to talk to someone at the moment, please utilize services such as: Kids Help Line (24/7 phone line: 1800 551 800; and selected hours for web counselling: http://www.kidshelpline.com.au), Life Line (24/7 phone line: 13 11 14; and selected hours for online counselling: http://www.lifeline.org.au/Find-Help/Online-Services/crisis-chat) or eHeadspace (selected hours for web counselling: https://www.eheadspace.org.au/). They probably won't be able to relate exactly to what you are going through, but they can be great to chat to and get a different perspective on things!

Take care,

MM.

P.S. Feel free to come join us on the Reach Out forums - there's a very supportive community on there who are always willing to listen and offer suggestions: http://forums.reachout.com/forum.php

riley

2 months ago

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seriously, i kinda need an answer ASAP

riley

2 months ago

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i mean, i'm the kinda guy who actually wants to do something with his life; travel, play at gigs, meet interesting people. not one of those guys that is disabled and just does virtually nothing for his whole life except for going outside of the house to get the mail.
and at the moment, i dont see any of that happening. i cant even see myself getting a part time job cause of it. but i can see all of those things happening if i dont have a right hand. having no hand at all would be better than going through what i go through daily

riley

2 months ago

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i have lived with spasticity in both my right limbs since i was around 10, one year after my stroke. it is a living hell. everyday i feel held back by it. an i am held back, most of the stuff that peopl do sub-consiounsly, like, just wiggling your fingers, i cant even do with my right hand. 24/7, all my muscles in both right limbs are tense as hell! i can not begin to describe just how much it affects my daily life.

sometime earlier this year, i was discussing organising some more physio and OT with my mum, she was honest and said something along the lines of, 'im sorry but it litterally can not get any better, your brain is permanetley damaged'. well, not that, more polite lol. so then i thought 'well, i need a permanent answer to a permanent problem. i just want the relief of it not being there, being free from the imense tension.' and then it came to me....
am i crazy, for wanting to amputate my right hand? the tension and stiffness of it is so unberable, i would do anything to get free of it.
i believe, life for me would be so much better if it wasnt holding me back from doing so many things, like even when im not atleast trying to make my right hand do something useful, its tension still irritates and annoys me to the point of insanity. 
after all, whats the point of having the tool if you cant use it?.... 

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