Bullying vs. teasing What really is the difference between bullying and teasing? We’ve laid it out for you so it’s all crystal clear. Bullying Can happen anywhere Intentional, designed to cause distress By someone who has more power or influence Repeated Intimidation, fear and control Teasing Can include an argument or fight between friends Good natured, playful Equal, not ganging up on one person Not repeated over and over again They’d stop if you asked them to