I did watch like, close to a hundred coming-out videos and like, that really helped.

I realised that I'm really close to my dad. We live really far away from each other and we only get to talk on the phone maybe like once a week. for an hour.

I didn't want us to develop our relationship with it, and a shallow level like that, and I just wanted to like sort of break the ice so yeah I told him that I was bisexual, and he just thought I was like confused and going through a phase and trying to be different.

I was upset about that. I had a long think about it and I came to the conclusion that he is a 52 year old man who grew up in Kenya, which is like a predominantly Christian country with a really, like, strict family, and I thought, "Okay that's, that was his lifestyle. Anything to do with homosexuality is taboo, yet he still, you know, expressed the fact that he loves me."

I shared my sexuality with all of my friends and they were really accepting and loving and it made me realise that there's other people in the world besides my family that are willing to accept me as just, just Grace.

Now that I've had those difficult conversations and now that I've come out to people, everything is okay...not as bad as I thought.

My advice to anyone in this situation is be okay with yourself before you you tell anyone; be like, somewhat alright with who you are. Don't go looking for approval in other people because you might not get it, and what's important is that you accept yourself
first because you're the one that has to live with you.