Workplace bullying
What is workplace bullying?
Workplace bullying is when you are verbally, physically, socially or psychologically hurt by your employer (or manager), another person or group of people at work. It can happen in any type of workplace, from offices to workshops, including voluntary, casual and military positions.
Psychological and social bullying can include:
- verbal abuse or making fun of your work or you (including your family, sex, sexuality, race or culture, education or economic background)
- excluding or isolating you from people or situations
- psychological harassment (playing mind games, ganging up on you)
- intimidation (making you feel less important and crap)
- giving you pointless jobs that have nothing to do with your job
- giving you impossible jobs that can't be done in the given time or the resources provided
- deliberately changing your work roster to make it difficult for you
- deliberately holding back information you need for getting your work done properly.
Physical bullying or violence is when you are physically attacked or threatened. It can include:
- pushing, shoving, tripping, grabbing
- punching, kicking, scratching, biting, spitting or any other type of direct physical contact
- attacking or threatening with equipment, knives, guns, clubs or any other type of object that can be turned into a weapon
- any form of sexual harassment, such as flashing or touching
- initiation or hazing - where you are made to do humiliating things in order to be accepted as part of the team.
How being bullied can affect your work
If you are being bullied at work you might:
- be less productive
- be less confident in your work
- feel scared, stressed, anxious or depressed
- have your life outside of work affected, e.g. study, relationships
- want to stay away from work (more than usual)
- feel unable to trust your employer or the people with whom you work
- lack confidence and self-esteem in yourself and your work
- have physical symptoms of stress such as headaches, backaches, sleep problems
Why people bully others at work
Like bullying at school or other places, people who bully others at work often have low self-esteem or have been a victim of violence themselves. They use bullying as a way of making themselves feel more powerful.
If you are experiencing bullying it may help to remember that bullies are often not as tough as they make out. Often bullying can become their way of dealing with their own problems. Bullies can also be motivated by jealousy, lack of knowledge, fear or misunderstanding.
Your rights
No one deserves or asks to be bullied. Everyone has the right to work in an environment free from bullying, harassment, discrimination and violence. Employers and employees have duties by law (eg Occupational Health and Safety Acts) to comply with any measures in place to promote health and safety within the workplace and not to put themselves or their colleagues at risk.
It's also worth keeping in mind that bullying is not the same as conflict. Disagreement and conflict happen at most workplaces, however, it should never turn into bullying or harrassment.
What you can do if you are being bullied at work
When you are being bullied, it can feel as if your options are limited, but it's important to remember that there are things you can do and people who can help.
- Make sure you're informed - find out what the organisation's policies and procedures are for preventing and handling bullying.
- Keep a diary documenting everything that happens, including what you've done to try stopping it. This can help if you make a complaint.
- Get external information and advice, e.g. Lawstuff, the union representing your industry, the Human Rights and Equal Opportunity Commission (see below and links). These organisations can give you advice on your options and your rights. You can also ask them to act on your behalf if you don't feel comfortable doing so. They should also respect your confidentiality, though if you are concerned about this, ask them what their responsibilities are.
- Tell someone. The person to talk to might be a Human Resource Manager, but if there isn't one you should report it directly to your employer, a supervisor/manager or health and safety representative (if your work has one). This situation might be able to be resolved informally, without any official complaint being made.
- If the situation continues or is serious, you might need to make a formal (written) complaint that follows company policy. The person doing the bullying might be officially warned, and be required to have counselling. If the bullying continues, there might be a mediation process and, if all else fails, the person bullying might be fired. If you end up having to leave, you might be eligible for outstanding wages and entitlements.
- If the person doing the bullying is your employer or they do not do anything to stop it, it's important you get outside support and advice.
More information
Check out the factsheets and links listed on the right for info on bullying, things you can do to manage the situation and unions.
National
Human Rights and Equal Opportunity Commission (HREOC),
GPO Box 5218,
Sydney. NSW 2000
Phone: (02) 9284 9600 or 1300 369 711
TTY: 1800 620 641
Fax: (02) 9284 9611
E-Mail: paffairs@humanrights.gov.au
Website: www.hreoc.gov.au
State & Territory
New South Wales Anti-Discrimination Board,
Level 17, 201 Elizabeth St,
Sydney
PO Box A2122, Sydney South,
NSW 1235.
Phone: (02) 9268 5555
TTY; (02) 9268 5522
Fax: (02) 9268 5500
Toll free: 1800 670 812.
Website: www.lawlink.nsw.gov.au/adb
Anti-Discrimination Commission of Tasmania,
Level 5, Executive Building,
15 Murray St,
Hobart. TAS 7000.
Phone: (03) 6233 4841
TTY: (03) 6233 3122
Fax: (03) 6233 5333
Email: AntiDiscrimination@justice.tas.gov,au
Website: www.antidiscrimination.tas.gov.au/
Queensland Anti-Discrimination Commission.
Phone: 1300 130 670
TTY: 1300 130 680
E-Mail: info@adcq.qld.gov.au
Website: www.adcq.qld.gov.au
Victorian Equal Opportunity Commission.
Level 3, 380 Lonsdale St,
Melbourne, VIC 3000
Phone: (03) 9281 7111 or 1800 134 142
Fax: (03) 9281 7171
Email: information@veohrc.vic.gov.au
Website: www.humanrightscommission.vic.gov.au/Home.asp
Western Australian Equal Opportunity Commission,
Level 2, Hartley's Building,
141 St George's Tce, Perth WA 6000.
Phone: (08) 9216 3900
TTY: (08) 9216 3936
Fax: (08) 9216 3960
Toll Free: 1800 198 149.
Website: www.equalopportunity.wa.gov.au
South Australian Equal Opportunity Commission.
Level 10, 30 Currie St
GPO Box 464,
Adelaide SA 5001.
Phone: (08) 8207 1977
TTY: (08) 82071911
Fax: (08) 8207 2090
Toll Free: 1800 188 163
Website: www.eoc.sa.gov.au
Australian Capital Territory Human Rights Office,
GPO Box 158,
Canberra City. ACT 2601
Level 2 / 12 Moore St, Canberra City.
Phone: (02) 6205 2222
TTY: (02) 6207 0525
Fax: (02) 6207 0587 or (02) 6207 1034
E-Mail: humanrights@actgov.au
Website: www.hro.act.gov.au
Northern Territory Anti-Discrimination Commission.
7th Floor, National Mutual Building,
9 -11 Cavenagh Street, Darwin
LMB 22 GPO, Darwin. NT 0801.
Telephone: (08) 8999 1444
Fax: (08) 8981 3812
TTY: (08) 8999 1466
Freecall: 1800 813 846
Email: administration.adc@nt.gov.au
Website: www.adc.nt.gov.au
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Angie916
3 months ago
Reply ReportI worked for a company that did not listen to me when I reported bullying isolation etc, i took time off for stress, and on returning have now been made redundant, for What I believe is only a reason to get rid of me as I am a female in a mans domain.. I have lost all faith in management and laws as I'm the one out of a job.
my head is not in a good place i'm depressed i feel worthless, I cant function properly lost motivation think about work every moment of the day. I try and hide it from family and friends which I think I do ok..... but the point is, that how these people have made me feel is wrong, even to make a complaint to fair work or anything like that scares me, cos the company will lie what do i do? where do I go?
Roisin - RO Crew
2 months ago
Reply ReportHi Angie916,
I am sorry to hear about everything you have been through recently.
If you are feeling depressed it is important that you speak to somebody about it. Lifeline is a great place to start. They are completley confidential and anomynous and can be contacted any time 24/7 on 13 11 14. They are really freindly and are happy to chat with you about any issue no matter how big or small.
If you would like to complain to an external organisation about what happened in your workplace the phone numbers for each state are in the above fact sheet.
Woman
2 months ago
Reply ReportI have been bullied in the public sector and after reporting this to my manager, was shocked to find that she was on the bully's side and not mine. How will we ever stop a bully in the workplace if this is the common procedure?
Woman
2 months ago
Reply ReportI am sorry that you had so much pain and grief to cope with. I am very proud of you in that you tried to do something about being bullied in the workplace. I would suggest that you get in touch with Today Tonight on Channel 7 on http://au.todaytonight.yahoo.com/contactus. It is time that the world stands up to bullies. If you want to chat to me please do and I can help you.
smiley1
about 1 month ago
Reply ReportLike Angie916 I reported a bullying incident online after feeling that I was unable to deal with the situation anymore myself. I work in the not for profit sector. I unlike my boss pushed myself to try and work it out by asking for external mediation. After this mediation like one week they gave me a letter to say i was under performance management. It was mostly lies. In Oct last year I sustained an injury to my leg and required surgery. Subsequently I had a fair amount of time off. When I returned to work I was asked to do silly things like move furniture. I sustained a psychological disorder by putting myself through all this and not back at work yet. My office had 7 staff and now their are only two left.
I am trying to stay positive through this situation but it is really difficult.
Roisin - RO Crew
about 1 month ago
Reply ReportHi Smiley1
I really am sorry to hear about everything you have been through. Bullying is never ok and although it has been hard it's really inspiring to hear about how strong you have been in trying to stay positive. :)
If you would like to talk to someone about everything you are going through Lifeline are a great service with qualified councellors. You can call them on 13 11 14 any time of the night or day. That's what they are there for :)
Also there is lots of information and tips in the above fact sheet that you may find helpful.
All the best
Roisin - RO Crew
leigh88
23 days ago
Reply ReportI am working in hell...I was informed by a co worker of comments made in regard to my sexuality and the fact that my manager had said he didnt want to be working with a f*gg*t. I am a straight male.There was further comments made to myself by this manager in regard to relationships and sexual acts that i have supposidly had with other male co-workers example....I think "Name" would like to get inside your ass.
i was invited to the work christmas paint ball last year and this same manager said i was welcome to bring my boyfriend along..
I raised my concern with upper managment and so did my mother.Upper Managment told me to "Be a man and deal with it".I Spoke to the manager who had made remarks and also told him it was relayed to myself what was said. He denied saying the second hand information and the other things were just in joking..This seem to eliviate the situation for a short time however managment ignors me now...I cant go to anyone in the workplace because i will be humilatied and be littled, i feel anxiety and pre judged.Managment will say hello or good morning to others around me and pretend like im not even there..I was due for a pay review however the review never happened...Now i have had a councelling session which involved them telling me this was the first step towards my eployment being terminated. reasoning arriving late to work continually.This is true however the reasons for my late arrival is beacuse i avoid going to work and am up all night stressing over my current situation...What can i do in this situation?I am getting frequent migranes needing medication. I feel Extremely alone as i fear the perception people will form or have formed of me if i was to raise an issue i also try to hide this issue from my parents as i dont want to cause worry and concern for them..Please assist and give me direction
peach
7 days ago
Reply ReportWoman - I am so sorry that you have also been put through this ordeal! My partner is in exactly the same boat ... first reported bullying / discrimination verbally to HR, who dismissed 1 part as an "oversight" and ignored the rest. After nearly 6 weeks of just wanting and requesting that somebody from the public service department to openly and impartially discuss the situation in the hope to boost work place relations, the department has decided to take 'disciplinary' action against my partner because the claims of bullying were lodged but found to be "unsubstantiated" - The report from the so called investigation however is far from impartial, is missing evidence and some parts of it are false!!
If there is anything I can help with regarding sharing information or feelings about your situation let me know. :)
peach
7 days ago
Reply ReportHi Leigh,
you've been strong in all this - to still be able to go to work and try to address your situation even though it would have been difficult for you - you should be proud of yourself for being able to do that. Stay strong and know that you are not alone, even though it may feel like it.
This piece of advice may not help you at the moment, but it may help out in the future - If you have a diary, take notes on what has been happening and when and what action you took and what your management's responses were. These will come in handy if you decide to follow through with some form of grievance resolution through work.
Stay positive, you have honesty on your side - no matter what anyone else tells you. :)