Depression

Find out all you need to know about clinical depression - including the causes, signs and symptoms of depression, and what to do if you think you might have symptoms.

Signs this might be a problem…

  • you’ve been feeling sad or crap for a while
  • you’re under a lot of stress
  • you don’t have any energy
  • you feel worthless

What is depression?

People often use the word depression when they are talking about moments or phases when they’re feeling sad or down. But more officially, depression is a name for a range of different conditions. These include conditions where someone feels a sadness that is more severe than normal, lasts longer than two weeks and interferes with how they cope with everyday life.

Clinical depression (also known as non-melancholic depression and major depression) is the most common type of depression and it affects one in four females and one in six males over their lifetime. It can be pretty hard to diagnose because some of the symptoms of other types of depression are really unique (e.g. impaired mental functioning, psychotic features, or physical disturbance), whereas the symptoms of clinical depression aren’t so specific.

Clinical depression is usually caused as a result of a person going through a stressful event or chain of stressful events, for example:

  • family breakup
  • child abuse
  • bullying
  • conflict within families or friendships
  • a death
  • a relationship breakup.

The symptoms of clinical depression can sometimes go away if the stress that caused them is fixed or removed. But the symptoms can also be managed or treated by learning and developing helpful coping strategies.

Signs and symptoms of depression

When people experience clinical depression, they often feel:

  • unusually sad or down
  • hopeless or helpless
  • numb or empty
  • anxious
  • worthless or guilty when something isn’t really their fault
  • like they can’t cope
  • restless, slow, like they don’t have energy
  • like they can’t get motivated

Other signs that a person may have depression:

  • being really critical of themselves
  • finding it hard to make decisions
  • crying a lot
  • withdrawing from friends/family or being really dependent on them
  • not feeling hungry or feeling hungry all the time
  • not being able to sleep or always sleepy
  • headaches, stomach aches
  • losing interest in sex
  • thinking about death heaps or wanting to die themselves.
Most people experience some of these feelings and behaviours at different times but the difference with depression is that the symptoms can be more severe and they don’t go away over time.

What you can do about depression

There are a range of different ways to treat the symptoms of clinical depression. Treatments for clinical depression include:

Sometimes one particular treatment will successfully treat a person and at other times using both physical and psychological treatments will be more successful. It really depends on the personality of the individual and the cause of their depression.

Diagnosing clinical depression can be a little bit tricky but it’s a treatable condition. If you think you’re experiencing symptoms of depression it’s worth visiting your GP for a consultation. Proper diagnosis and treatment will be much easier if you get professional advice. Your doctors can work with you to create a treatment plan which suits your personal circumstances and experience.

What can I do now?

  • Don’t use alcohol and drugs as a way of coping
  • Getting out and being active helps to lift your mood
  • Talk to your GP about cognitive behavioural therapy

 

Last reviewed: 27 February, 2013
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  • Sophie-RO   (23 days ago)

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  • Sophie-RO   (23 days ago)

    itsjustme, wow you have a way with words - thanks for sharing what you've been feeling inside it sounds like a really sad place to be. If you have not got professional support in place or you are finding that your current support is not enough, please check out the professional support section of reachout as well as chatting with Beyond Blue about your support options, they have a webchat feature between 4-10pm, and a phone line that's 24/7 that you can find at http://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/get-immediate-support

  • Sophie-RO   (23 days ago)

    josie, it's important that you go back to your prescribing doctor immediately and explain exactly what's going on. You can also get immediate support from Suicide Call Back Service via chat or phone: http://www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au/ You do not deserve to feel like this - hold on, this pain will end.

  • josie   (26 days ago)

    I recently started taking antidepressants but my depression has gone from bad to debilitating in a matter of days (yes, I know antidepressants take time to work but it's so bad that I can't cope anymore). I feel tired all the time, I wake up through the night, I think too much, I can't eat properly, I think about self harm all the time, I want to die, I'm isolating myself and I have no motivation to continue with my life. I don't know what to do anymore.

  • Itsjustme   (34 days ago)

    Depression is killing me, not physically but emotionally. It's hard to endure. There's this throbbing pain inside me and It's hard to breath. My body feels so weak and my limbs are like quivering. I don't know what to do, it just happen. Everything seems so dark like there's no way out. I'm bored, I'm sad, I'm lonely. I don't like myself and I don't like what I feel but I can't help it. It's just the way I feel. I can't imagine the future, I am living in lies and pretending that everything is normal. I've been living in a dream, a fantasy because it's my escape from reality. I hate the way I am. I wish I was normal and I wish I know what to do. I'm just tired of trying so hard and feeling the way that I do. I hate thinking too much but that's what I do and it's unbearable. I just want to sleep... sleep and sleep.. and maybe never wake up anymore. Just disappear like a bubble.

  • ruenhonx   (110 days ago)

    Hey PInkfish31. Welcome and you are so brave to come on RO. It's great you have a new guy in your life and one thing that's very important in a relationship is honesty but your mental health is very important as well so you need to make sure you feel ready to share this with him and that you are in the right mindset to tell him and still be positive that you will get support from him. The way I see it if he leaves you after you tell him then he is not the guy for you and you definitely can do better. What makes you feel like he may not understand? Jump on the forums for a chat.

  • PInkfish31   (112 days ago)

    I have a new guy in my life. I don't how I should tell him that I have Depression? My mental health in not in a great place right now. I don't know how he would take it that I have Depression? I don't want to lose him but he needs to understand why I feel like I feel. I feel like no one understands where I am coming from.

  • Sophie-RO   (176 days ago)

    Hi PInkfish31... When you are are going through a tough time with your mental health it's not uncommon to feel like no one understands. I'm really sorry to hear that you have have struggling so much - it sounds like you have been feeling a lot of pain inside and there are very few moments when you feel safe and secure. You should be really proud of yourself though, for making it here to ReachOut.com looking for help. It's not easy to admit we need help, but by posting here you have made a really positive step. You've mentioned self-harm - there are many reasons why you might be thinking about it, but it is most often used as a way of coping with difficult emotions. If you are self-harming, ranging from enlisting a support team to practicing self-help techniques, check out this link: http://au.reachout.com/What-is-self-harm or you could also check out the Bodies Under Seige web-board: http://buslist.org/phpBB. You have also said you have had thoughts of ending your life - thoughts are just thoughts, you do not have to act on them. Just because you have had these thoughts does not necessarily mean you want to die - it might just mean you want the pain inside to end. There are hundreds of thousands of other young people who can tell you that it can better and that when you make it though you'll be alive to feel the pain end. Please contact Suicide Call Back: http://www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au they have live web-chat with a counselor or a phone line, whatever you feel comfortable with. You will learn how to help yourself and to stand on your own two feet - there is so much help and support out there, you are not alone. Keep on reaching out.

  • PInkfish31   (177 days ago)

    My friends don't understand what is going on. I have a friend that wants to end her life everyday and trys. I want to cut myself everyday mostly at night when I lay in bed all by myself. The only time I feel like everything is going to be ok is when my Boyfriend is wholding me in bed. Then I feel like no one can tountch me like everything is ok. I don't know what to do anymore ending it all has come into my mind more than onces. Yet to try anything but it has come into my mind.

  • Sophie-RO   (202 days ago)

    PART2 Sometimes that little voice inside us can get a bit negative and we start to believe the negative things are fact, not an opinion. While you can't always change the situation you are in - you can change the way you think about it. The fact that you can "put on a happy face" when you don't feel it inside, isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes our heart takes time to catch up to our head, so if we actually force ourselves to smile more and laugh more, after a while we can actually feel happier, even for a moment. The trick is to not bottle things up at the same time! More info: http://au.reachout.com/What-is-self-talk, You care deeply for the people around you - your family, boyfriend and friends all mean a lot to you. Dealing with grandparents getting old isn't easy but you sound like someone who can reach out to family or your boyfriend when things are tough. Just like this young woman: http://au.reachout.com/Memory-loss Keep reaching out and don't forget to check out the: forums.au.reachout.com

  • Sophie-RO   (202 days ago)

    PART1 Hey there PInkfish31, that sounds like a really sad place to be. You’ve really described pain that you are feeling, some powerful statements getting yourself heard. By what you've said, you have had a lot going on this year but there are quite a few things that you've said that sound like you have some impressive skills in getting yourself the help that you need. It sounds like you've been diagnosed by a doctor, it is encouraging that you've made it that far with your doctor/health professionals. Stick at it with them. If you feel like their help is not working, then you have the right ask for something in your treatment to change. You can also bring in self-help to assist with the professional help you are getting: http://au.reachout.com/Self-help-strategies-to-overcome-depression You sound pretty resilient. You’ve had tough times, but instead of falling down, you are here on ReachOut.com looking for the help that you need. That takes a lot of strength, so don't stop believing in yourself. http://au.reachout.com/Working-out-your-strengths.

  • PInkfish31   (205 days ago)

    I have clinical depression and i am not copping very well at all. I cant talk about it at all at home. I am slowing dying from the inside. My boyfriend is one of the best things that have happend in my life this year. As I had a very shit year lost my grandpa back in may. Almost lost both of my grandmas this year. One of them no longer know who I am anymore. Friendship have been lost this year as I am pushing people away. I may look and act happy on the out side but I dont feel that at all.