Sexuality

Gay, bi, straight, open…there's no right or wrong. Your sexuality, and who you’re attracted to, is your business and comes down to what feels right for you.

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Understanding your sexuality

Sexuality covers a broad spectrum, and is also deeply personal. It’s about understanding the sexual feelings and attractions we feel towards others.

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How to get support if you're feeling anxious about your sexuality

If you're feeling anxious about your sexuality, this decision tree will help you work out what steps you can take to feel better, and what support options are out there.

The difference between gender, sex and sexuality

Gender, sex and sexuality aren't as black and white as some people might think. Here's a handy guide to help you understand the difference.

How to cope with homophobia

Homophobia is something many queer people experience. Read this guide to learn about what it is and how to cope with it.

LGBTQIA+ support services

Find national, state and territory-based LGBTQIA+ support services. Connect with volunteers and staff who understand your issues and experiences.

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Culturally diverse LGBTQIA+ support services and groups

Wondering what support is available for LGBTQI young people from diverse backgrounds?

I think I am gay

Wondering about your sexuality? Find out what it means to be gay, how to know if you are gay, and how to come out.

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Putting the B in LGBTQIA+: A quick guide to understanding bisexuality

Check out our quick tips for handling the unique challenges that come with bisexuality, and ways to help smash some common myths.

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Understanding what it means to be pansexual

Are you unsure of which label best suits your sexual identity? Read our guide to learn what it means to be pansexual, and about the differences between bisexuality and pansexuality.

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What is asexuality?

‘Asexuality’ describes someone who isn't sexually attracted to people of any gender. Asexuality covers a broad spectrum. Learn more about it here.

The insider’s guide to being LGBTQIA+ in rural and remote areas

Being LGBTQIA+ in a rural, remote or regional area can be awesome, but it can also leave you feeling isolated, different and alone. Check out our insider's guide for advice and guidance.

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3 gay men reflect on their body image

Negative body image can affect anyone. Hear the stories of 3 young gay men, giving advice to their younger selves.

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Coming out stories

Watch how Gwyn and Grace navigated coming out to their friends and family.

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Brisbane Hustlers on inclusive rugby

Meet Queensland's only inclusive rugby team. Gwyn, Leki, Pakia and Jason share their experiences of coming to terms with their sexuality and the role Brisbane Hustlers has played in that process.

What is an LGBTQIA+ ally, and how can I be a good one?

Maybe someone you know has just come out, or you've seen something on TV...here's your starter pack to supporting the LGBTQIA+ community.

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How to say NO to discrimination and YES to inclusion

Discrimination happens everywhere, all the time. Here's how to recognise it, and little but powerful things you can do to help!

Wear It Purple Day

Wear It Purple Day is all about celebrating and supporting LGBTQIA+ young people, and challenging societal attitudes to help shape a better world for us all to live in.