Sex

Let's talk about sex.

Whether you're having it or just thinking about it, you've probably got a lot of questions. Am I ready for sex? Will it hurt? How do I talk to my partner about it? Do I share information about past sexual relationships? And so on…

Read on for more information on everything from questions to ask yourself before you have sex, to ways to protect yourself and your partner.

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Your how-to guide for safe sex

Feeling ready to have sex? Find out how to stay safe with this guide. From STIs to contraception, we can answer all your questions.

6 things you need to know about sexual consent

Sexual consent is when you and your sexual partner both agree to have sex. It's really important to be clear on this before things get too hot and heavy.

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Things to think about before sharing nudes

Check out our tips on what to think about before you share a nude, to keep things fun, flirty and safe for everyone.

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Preparing for your first time having sex

We’ve put together a list of some stuff to consider before, during and after sex.

How to get a sexual health check

The best way to do this is by having regular sexual health checks from your doctor or a sexual health nurse.

What is masturbation?

Learn about what masturbation is, who does it, why it’s healthy, and how to know if it’s becoming a problem.

How to talk to your partner about sexual health

Knowing how to talk about sexual health will help protect you and your sexual partners from sexually transmitted infections.

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Sharing your sexual history

Sharing your sexual history with your partner can benefit your current relationship if it’s done in the right way.

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What to do if you realise a past experience was sexual assault

This article can help you work out if a past experience was sexual assault, how to come to terms with this realisation, and what steps you can take next.

What to do if someone leaks your nudes

If someone 'leaks' or shares your nudes without your consent, there are steps you can take to get the issue sorted and to feel better in the meantime.

Types of contraception and birth control

There are different types of contraception, and all methods have certain side effects and risks. Talk to your doctor about the method that’s best for you.

Culturally diverse sexual health services

Do you have questions about sexual health but are worried about a language or cultural barrier?

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

A sexually transmitted infection (STI) is an infection you get from someone else during sexual activity.

How and when to tell someone you're pregnant

Telling a parent, guardian, grandparent or other ‘grown-up’ that you’re pregnant (or that you got someone pregnant) can be daunting if it wasn’t something you planned on.

Abortion

If you have an unwanted or complicated pregnancy, it’s important that you talk to a reliable and unbiased source about the options that are available to you.

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