Families
Our relationships with family members shape how we see ourselves and the world, but they can be some of the most complex relationships we’ll ever navigate. Whether you’re dealing with conflict with family, navigating the fallout of your parents’ divorce, or managing high parental expectations, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed or unheard. Sometimes, the challenges are heavier, like supporting a parent with a mental illness or realising that your home is not a safe place. Whatever you’re going through, you don’t have to figure it out alone. This collection is designed to help you navigate the ups and downs while prioritising your own wellbeing.
Building stronger connections often starts with small steps. Check out these tips for talking to parents about mental health to start those tough conversations, or explore our communication skills hub to find better ways to express your needs. If you’re looking to support those closest to you, our supporting family collection offers practical advice on being there for others without burning yourself out.
If you’re feeling stuck or just want to chat with someone who gets it, our peer workers are here to listen. Connect with ReachOut PeerChat for a free, anonymous, and supportive conversation.
How to cope with the highs and lows of family life
Gumbaynggir woman Tilly Langford shares her top tips for keeping family relationships healthy while growing up in a big Aboriginal family.
5 ways to get your parents to really listen to you
Good communication with your parents or carers is key to having your life run smoothly. Here are some tips for getting your message across.
Conflict with family
Occasional tension or arguments are a normal part of family life. Whether it’s with your parents or siblings, there are things you can do to stop conflict from getting worse.
Zig's story about family troubles
Zig shares how his mates and his nan help him stay deadly when things at home get too much.
Family services
If you’re having family issues and problems, such as conflict, or housing or safety concerns, help is available.
6 tips for talking to your parents about mental health
By doing a little planning, you can make talking to your parents about mental health a little easier.
How to deal with pressure from your parents
Read on for some practical tips on how to deal with high expectations from parents.
How to deal with your parents fighting all the time
Dealing with your parents fighting can be really stressful. While there's a lot you can't control in the situation, there are a few things you can do to make yourself feel better.
Dealing with divorce and custody
Coming to terms with a divorce and the fact that your family is changing is really tough, but there are things you can do to help clarify your feelings about what’s happened.
What to do when your home is no longer a safe place
If you’re feeling unsafe at home, because of issues with family or a partner, it’s a pretty intense thing to have to deal with. If this is happening, it’s really important to reach out for advice and support.
What is domestic violence and where can you find support?
Domestic violence, or ‘intimate partner violence’, is violent, abusive or intimidating behaviour in a relationship.
My parent has a mental illness
Whether your parent has been diagnosed with a mental illness, or you think they have a mental health condition, it’s normal to have conflicted feelings about it.
Finding your birth parents
If you’re adopted, you may get to a stage in life where you want to find your birth parents. A lot of people do; it’s perfectly normal.
Coping with the stress of Christmas
Christmas is meant to be a time of celebration, but the ‘season of goodwill’ can easily slip into ill-will and a tonne of stress.
Stories about different kinds of families
Family can be complicated, but it can also be your greatest source of strength. Discover how other young people have navigated big changes, found belonging, and embraced their unique family lives.
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Frequently asked questions about family relationships
Family conflict happens when members of a household have clashing beliefs, values, or needs. It can range from small disagreements to ongoing tension. While common, persistent conflict with family can feel draining, so it’s important to find healthy ways to communicate and set boundaries.
Stress at home can lead to anxiety, low mood, or a sense of being overwhelmed. When home doesn't feel like a sanctuary, it impacts your overall wellbeing. Learning how to cope with the highs and lows of family life can help you protect your mental health.
Managing family conflict is about finding a balance between expressing your needs and knowing when to step back. Try using ‘I’ statements and choosing a calm time to talk. For more practical strategies, check out these 5 ways to get your parents to really listen to you.
Starting this conversation can feel scary, but being prepared helps. Choose a time when everyone is calm, think ahead about what you need them to understand, and be specific about what you’re experiencing. Read our 6 tips for talking to your parents about mental health to help guide the process.
It’s natural to feel scared, worried, stressed, frustrated or caught in the middle when your parents fight, but remember, it isn’t your fault nor your job to fix their relationship. Focus on your own wellbeing. This might look like finding a quiet, safe space to retreat to, or reaching out to a trusted friend or family member. Read our advice on how to deal with your parents fighting all the time. Please also know that physical abuse is never okay, and if you ever feel unsafe, call 000.
Divorce brings a lot of change, and it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions like anger, sadness, or even relief. Focus on what you can control, set up consistent positive routines, and lean on friends or mental health professionals for support. Read more about dealing with divorce and custody to help navigate the transition.
Your safety is the most important thing. If you feel threatened, scared, or unsafe at home, call 000 and please reach out for professional ongoing help immediately. There are people ready to support you. Learn what to do when your home is no longer a safe place and where to find immediate help.