Gender

What is gender identity? Gender identity is your deeply felt, personal sense of who you are, whether that’s a man, a woman, a mix of both, neither, or somewhere else along the broad gender spectrum. It is separate from the sex assigned to you at birth based on physical characteristics and can evolve as you grow and learn more about yourself.

For plenty of young people, experimenting with and reflecting on their gender plays a natural role in personal growth and forming their identity. You might find your inner self lines up with the sex noted on your birth certificate (also known as being cisgender), or you might find that identifying as transgender, non-binary, or gender diverse feels more accurate. Along this journey, some people experience gender dysphoria, a feeling of discomfort when physical traits clash with the gender they identify as. Feeling this way can be tough, but support exists to help process those emotions and grow confident and comfortable in your skin.

Uncertainty during this process is completely normal. Settling on a specific label has no deadline, and living authentically looks different for everyone. While stepping out into social settings can bring worries about acceptance or bullying, keeping yourself safe and well comes first. However you choose to express yourself, and whatever your sexuality might be, you deserve dignity, care, and full respect for who you are.

We are also living in an era where conversations and reflections about your gender are encouraged and supported. There are many wonderful safe spaces and resources where you can go and find like-minded individuals to align your journeys with, so please know that you can access this support in whatever way feels most comfortable.

Everything you need to know about gender identity

Sex and gender are more complicated concepts than many people might think. Gender and identity exists on a diverse spectrum. Learn more about gender in this guide.

The difference between gender, sex and sexuality

Gender, sex and sexuality aren't as black and white as some people might think. Here's a handy guide to help you understand the difference.

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Understanding gender dysphoria

We spoke with a clinical psychologist and four young trans people to learn more about what gender dysphoria is and how to cope with it.

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Chase’s story: How I got support with coming out as trans

Hear from Chase about how he dealt with puberty as a young trans person. Learn how he approached coming out and how he got support.

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Understanding what it means to identify as non-binary

Identifying as non-binary means that you exist on the gender spectrum, or even outside of gender altogether. Read more to understand what it means to identify as non-binary.

How to cope with transphobia

Transphobia is something many trans, gender diverse and non-binary (TGDNB) people experience. Read this guide to learn about what it is and how to cope with it.

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How Emma learnt to accept herself and her gender identity

Emma, a young transgender woman, shares how reaching out for support helped her to accept her gender identity.

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Frankie’s story about family, identity and language

Frankie explores what it’s like to be non-binary in a family where language and tradition don’t always match your identity.

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3 non-binary people share stories of loneliness

Kai, Rudy and Gabby reflect on the times they felt lonely, and how they managed those feelings.

LGBTQIA+ support services

Find national, state and territory-based LGBTQIA+ support services. Connect with volunteers and staff who understand your issues and experiences.

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Culturally diverse LGBTQIA+ support services and groups

Wondering what support is available for LGBTQIA+ young people from diverse backgrounds? Read our guide to the various services and groups around Australia.

Warren’s story about identifying as transgender

Warren shares his transition journey, from coming out to his parents to finding community.

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What is an LGBTQIA+ ally, and how can I be a good one?

Maybe someone you know has just come out, or you've seen something on TV...here's your starter pack to supporting the LGBTQIA+ community.

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How to support someone with their gender affirmation

Gender affirmation is one aspect of living authentically for gender diverse people. Learn how to support someone with their gender affirmation.

Frequently asked questions about gender identity

Gender identity is your personal, internal sense of who you are. It’s how you feel inside and how you choose to describe yourself, whether that’s as a man, a woman, both, neither, or somewhere else on the gender spectrum. Unlike the clothes you wear or how you act, gender identity is about your baseline knowledge of your own self. It’s a core part of your overall identity, and for many people, it can be fluid or change over time as they learn more about themselves and how they fit into the world. Learn more about gender.

People tend to mix gender and sex up, but they cover very different ground. Sex centres on biological traits present at birth, including chromosomes, hormones, and physical anatomy. Gender exists as a personal and cultural experience, focusing on your internal sense of self. Aligning with your assigned biological sex makes you cisgender, while feeling a disconnect marks the experience of being transgender or gender diverse. Recognising the gap between the two brings a lot of clarity when figuring out where you fit. Read more about the difference between gender, sex and sexuality.

Non-binary serves as a broad term for anyone whose identity falls outside the standard choice between man and woman. Someone under this umbrella might identify with aspects of both genders, feel completely disconnected from either, or relate to an entirely different experience. Pronoun choices vary widely too — some go with they/them, others prefer he/him or she/her, and many mix them up. There is no set way a non-binary person has to present visually; the identity comes down entirely to how you feel inside. Explore more about what being non-binary means.

Gender dysphoria describes the deep emotional distress that crops up when biological traits or external labels clash with someone's internal gender identity. This discomfort might stem from physical features, how society reads a person, or the gendered expectations thrown their way. Not every trans or gender-diverse person goes through dysphoria, but for those who do, the experience can weigh heavily on everyday mental health. Finding affirming spaces and honouring your truth offers relief, and reaching out for support makes a big difference when things get heavy. Find out more about understanding and managing gender dysphoria.

Show up for them by listening closely and letting them set the pace. When they share a new name or updated pronouns, make a deliberate effort to use them consistently. This straightforward step demonstrates genuine respect. Skip personal questions about medical choices or their body, focusing instead on being a steady, non-judgemental presence. Standing up for them if they face harsh treatment or exclusion gives them the safety they need to step into who they are. Check out our guide on how to be a great ally to an LGBTQIA+ person.